Constant
It’s said the only certainties in life are death and taxes. That may or may not be true. There is another absolute certainty, though. The only constant in life is love. Maybe you’ve experienced mad, passionate love with a partner, sacrificial love for your children, or the enduring love of a parent or friend. Love comes in all these forms, and, if we’re lucky, we get to experience one or more of them in our lives. Perhaps, though, the most unconditional love comes from our pets. If you’re really fortunate, you’ll get to be the person someone from the animal kingdom bonds with and they’ll love you unequivocally and wholeheartedly.
The Bond Between Us
We love them because of their quirks and the love they so generously bestow upon us. We care for our pets in all the ways they need, and do it with kindness and the same affection and care they shower on us every day. The bond we share with our furry, scaly, or feathered friend is like no other. They love us when we feel unlovable, and they do it without pretense. Our pets make us better people.
When It’s Their Time
Regardless of how much we love our pets and how much they love us, and regardless of the length of time we’ve shared a bond with them, it’s inevitable that they will pass from this life into the next. They will cross the rainbow bridge because that’s the circle of life. It will affect you deeply and that’s okay.
Planning For End-Of-Life Care
Sometimes your beloved pet slows down or develops health problems. Sometimes they seem disengaged and in pain. Your pet’s veterinarian will talk with you about any concerns you have, and will be able to help you decide an appropriate next step for your pet. Together, you and your veterinarian will discuss things like:
- Your pet’s current quality of life
- Their immediate and longer-term prognosis
- Plans in case your pet has an emergency
If you have the opportunity, planning for your pet’s end-of-life care can be one way to cope with your pet’s passing.
When The Grief Hits
Grieving for the loss of your pet is natural, normal, and unavoidable. It’s an inescapable part of loving them. It’s important for you to know that your grief is healthy, even if it doesn’t feel so when you’re experiencing it.
Some important tips for processing grief after the loss of a pet are:
- Give yourself grace
- Recognize that your grief is reasonable and real
- Join a support group for pet loss
- Realize that grief looks different for everyone
- Ask for help if you need it
- Plant a tree or memorialize your pet in another way
- Begin a tradition of donating to a pet shelter or volunteering on your pet’s birthday
There are no wrong ways to grieve the loss of your beloved pet friend, but it’s important that you do so.
South Hyland Pet Hospital
South Hyland Pet Hospital in Minneapolis, MN wants to support you and your family throughout your pet’s life. We provide compassionate care for you and the pet you love so much. We love our pets, too. Call or text us at 952-884-1868 if we can be of service to you in any way.
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